Face-to-face communication once to be one of the most emotional and humanistic things that we've done. In one hand, we try the best of our abilities to avoid a conversation, and even a silent phone may kill our passion in communication or keep us from communication. In the other hand, we present the best of us to the world on the Internet.
Many youths are zealous to communicate by QQ or WeChat. They act talkatively and show their colorful life online. But in real life, they have trouble in face-to-face communication actually. The answer we communicate online has been altered to hide our weakness and present a better self-state, while the thought and words that pop up on the face-to-face communication are improvise, which may strengthen our relationship, perform the real person and promote social behavior.
Changes to one's talking habits can encourage people to communicate more actively. First of all, greet people to present you a vigorous person. Afterward, focus on listening in a conversation. A successful listener is prone to spare more time to listen, less time to speak, and never interrupts others casually. Lastly, try to use body language. Sometimes an eye contact or a gesture on hand might express lots of meanings, and yield twice the result with half the effort to achieve both sides' agreement.
In short, the lack of face-to-face communication is a significant problem in modern life, leading to faded passion and cold relationship. Of the solutions suggested, it's time for us to make the first move to motivate the communication.
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